Ben and Erin Napier on Date Nights, Jealousy and Relationship Rules

Bin Nabir It is a romantic, not apologized. “He is very married to philosophy that every day, you should do something to make your wife fall in love again,” his 16 -year -old wife, IreneAnd tells US weekly. Laurel, Mississippi, the warmth of the couple and the concrete bond is part, which makes them long in the long run HGTV Reno series City hometown Such a crowd of crowd: It is not customary to cut a chat on the camera, for example, kitchen cabinets to take it automatically and rotate around it. (And yes, it’s always pleased!)
He outperformed one day of Valentine’s Day when he rented a special chef on the backyard feast – French cuisine accompanied by French music, nature, and mood lighting. Irene recalls: “I created a large fabric tent on the swing group” Girls “. (They are Girls’ participation Helen, 7 and MAE, 3.)
After two decades, Irene, 39, and Ben, 41, became just fond of as they fell in love with Jones Junior College in the early first decade of the twentieth century. She was nineteen years old, and she was 21 years old; After crushing them from afar, click immediately when I met Irene Ben for the annual book. “After six days, we decided to get married,” she says.
They were partners Since their modern days, When they moved 13 minutes from college to her hometown of Laurel. Ben, the Minister of Youth, and Erin, a graphic designer, joined the 1925 craft hut into their dreams. Their footage of social media has caught the impressive renewal of the attention of the HGTV product, and the rest is the date … with a little store and home EC. In addition to their offers – the third season of Town Town was shown on March 9 (including 2018 notes – they have three retail stores (Scotsman Co., Laurell Mercantile and Scent. Make something good today And Irene’s children’s book, LanternFurniture line.
Among their accomplishments, they are proud of the family they built. “I don’t feel eligible to speak a lot, but I am very happy with our marriage,” says Irene. He sat with Ben with we Detecting their secrets.

We are always speaking – to the extent of excessive
“I and I always say that communication is an essential element in a happy marriage,” Ben said that working together gave HGTV stars a leg in this section. “The vast majority of our job is a manager who says:” Hey, it has just happened – give me some ideas about it. “We are Ping Pong off each other.”
Although online critics may comment if it seems that it does not allow it to speak on the screen or vice versa, it is rarely so. “What they do not realize is that small excerpts of 30 seconds of us talk were taken from a 30 -minute conversation.”
Eren says their common history: “We were together for a longer period. (One of the funny secondary products of its past the wide gathering is that their memory could fail.
The idea of spending 24/7 may not appeal with a husband or wife for everyone, but Ben Yarat that husbands can overcome the initial discomfort. He says, “Some people say,” Oh, I could not work with my wife, “but it may be that you have never tried her.” “If you go to your parents’ house and you are there for a few days, then you tend to start with each other’s nerves, but if you are together for a long time, you go beyond that, and you go to this groove together. ”
We trust each other
Fans may be surprised when they learned that Irene is sometimes struggling with jealousy. In fact, she admits that she was not happy when someone resembles something like a supermodel to be a “dm’d’s report on working with the duo. While she says she trusts her husband” 110 percent “, she admits that her imagination is sometimes going, as she did on Tuesday, when she arrived at home and discovered that Ben had bathed in the afternoon. I called him, but “was not an accusation”, Irene narrates. “I just wanted to leave [him] Know the extent of my mental creativity. “
According to milk, this “walks alongside communication. [is when someone feels forced to say]”Why didn’t you tell me this?” Of course, this is rare because Erine comments, “We are together all the time. I hear everything he hears. [Laughs.] I stand with him when he hears it! “

We know that small things are calculated
There are many examples of their very studied lives: Erine comes out of garbage because it explains, “has a lot to manage it.” And every evening before bed, you prepare a Ben drink for the next day. “I don’t drink coffee, but he does it, so I make the coffee maker ready the night before,” you note. Sometimes there is special mug in the mixture – cute! “We went to Ole Miss to speak at an event, so I put Ole Miss Mug [out]. It is our small secret language. It is just a mug, but it is useful. ”To chat with the husband with weErren chose a commercial mug “because we are sitting here all day!”
For his part, Irene’s love notes leave. every day. “They do not say anything deep,” she says, “[just] Things like, “I am so grateful that you and me, and this is what is our life”, or, “Thank you for being mine, and I will do my best for you every day.”
It also supervises the gardens on the small farm of the family. “This is a romantic gesture to me,” Irene says. “It makes sure we have something new I can [harvest] To cook.
We go to a large extent on romance, too
Ben designed his game on special occasions, such as Valentine’s Day. Their last tradition: He orders the deep Chicago Pizza-in Irene. “He did this immediately before Helen was born, and now this is something,” she explained, noting that girls get a major category of their father in what they deserve. “This year we had a candlelight pizza with girls and listened to Italian music and got it balloons, flowers and cards.”
And it continues: “You will destroy girls.

We appear to each other
Erine is still grateful for milk on how to support her when her grandmother, who has now died with a stroke in 2008, was the year they linked to the knot. Irene recalls: “She did not seem good. From nothing, I started receiving texts from friends and loved ones they say they were thinking about them and praying for her grandmother. Irene says:“ We did not have social media after that. ”Ben went and sent a text message to everyone we knew we knew [and asked them] To do this. It was once [he] Really appeared. “One of the many. [be a] My mom is interested in girls, and he always supports everything. “
We feel creative with dates
With two young children and the empire of optimizing the home for running, Ben and Erin have not much time to go out. Irene says, “History nights were planned six months ago,” Irene says. (It takes less time for the tiles for the order!) “It occurs once or twice a year.”
So lunch dates are something. Irene explains: “You should not wear clothes and go out at night to a crowded restaurant,” Irene explains.

We guarantee that the devices are not exciting
They agree that electronics are a major issue not only for themselves, but perhaps most couples. “They are stealing attention,” says Irene. “I bet that the phones take more than anything else.”
Ben continues: “It is addiction.
We choose our norms
After 20 years together, they learned to let things go. “[Early on]Irene says: “If Ben did anything bothering me – like leaving the doors of the cabinet – I will say something,” Irene says. And I took the mug and put it in the pelvis, and I do not complain. “
It is not similar to the leadership of Ben Al -Sarda and its dropping “piles of shoes” around the house as well, but she chooses not to respond. “I bet that 90 percent of the things we complain about in our marriages are not very important,” Irene added.

We honor the things that brought us together
Return in time keeps them in touch, too. “It is important to remember what I loved about each other when I first met,” Irene says. “Try to remember it every day.”
The two enjoy sharing the pictures of return and tales from their first days as a couple. In December, she detailed the first few weeks with her followers. One of the illustrations described how it was seriously crushing Ben – who was very popular on the campus – before they met. “He was an enjoyable person to see him, to be present,” she wrote. “I wanted to be a friend of him badly.
We are a team
At the end of the day, Irene and Ben pressed the same goal – a joyful home life with each other and their girls. According to Arin, “You make small decisions every day [in which] You can either decide that this makes me happy and I will go to my own way – “Ben harmonizes to end the thought:” – or this is the best for us. “
“Whenever you can withdraw in the same direction,” Irene added, “Irene adds,” Irene adds, “Irene adds,” Irene added, “”[the more] It makes marriage happier. “
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With Andrea Simpson reports
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2025-03-19 12:00:00